Thursday, February 19, 2015

Happy Chinese New Year!

Two days of fireworks here in Singapore. And being that I work at a rooftop bar near the harbour I got to see them both nights.

Photos are hard to take on an iPod but here's what I've got for you.







The shorter bright buildling in the forground of every photo is The Fullerton Hotel, a historic building here in Singapore. The tall building just to the right of the fireworks is the Marina Bay Sands, the most iconic building here in Singapore. It's a hotel/mall/casino/event center combo. Also where I went for my birthday - all the way up at the top.

Happy New Year!

Wednesday, February 18, 2015

I can't believe I'm living in Singapore

At least once a day for the last few days, especially since Elizabeth left, I have had moments where in walking down the street, or have a free moment at work, or, like right now, enjoying a coffee outside here in Singapore and cannot believe that in actually here. Singapore as a destination only popped onto my radar about a year ago, and at that time only as a stop over between Auckland and Bangalore, and now I'm living and working here. This is something I really never could have imagined. From growing up in the Midwest to living in one of the most forward thinking and moving countries in Asia. 2 months ago I knew almost behind about Singapore at all and now I live here. It's just crazy! Every day I'm learning more about the country, it's customs, it's people, making more connections with people who live all around the world. It is just very hard to believe and I'm trying to appreciate every moment. Even being at work here is like being at work in NZ - I'm working with people from all over the world together here in Singapore. I don't think any of us ever could have imagined this! And isn't that just what is so great about life? You can't even begin to imagine all the amazing places you will end up. You just have to trust that it will work out as it is supposed to. And I am learning this lesson again and again every day. I am also learning to have more patience with myself as with every new situation I have to deal with all sorts of new and unfamiliar circumstances. And every time I just need to be patient with the situation, and myself, and trust that it is all going to be okay. Man, have I learned just so much in these last 15 months that I have been away from the states. What else am I going to learn about life in the years to come? 

Side note - the morning of the day Elizabeth left we had coffee with a guy who grew up in Orono. Yes, Orono, MN. And we had coffee here in Singapore. The man, Don, graduated high school in 1974 and has been traveling and living around the world since the early 1980s in places such as Saudi Arabi, Nigeria, Colombia, Indonesia, and India. He was definitely one of the most interesting people we've met so far. He was also one of the most inspiring as well in the sense of how he approaches the world and the people he meets in it. Don had such a calm outlook on life - that what will be will be, you must accept what life had so you and make the best of it, that you should out your best effort in but life will go its course anyways, and to always be open to new experiences. He also believes that "networking" (as the business world calls it) is not a matter of meeting people to see what they can later do for you, but as a way to make friends that you can help out later down the road. He is maybe the only person I have ever heard describe networking as a way of helping others and expanding our friend group, not as a way of helping yourself and expanding the network of people you can call on when you need something. I hope that one day, when I have the ability to help others, that I will have an attitude like his. And lastly, and this is siem thing Elizabeth picked up on, Don recognized and acknowledged how different travel can be for a woman vs. a man on this world and how refreshing to hear that from a man. Being alone in a foreign country can be very scary for anyone, but the fact that he recognized the added issues women face was really nice. He never once challenges us because we said we didn't feel safe somewhere. That was so nice to hear. We really enjoyed meeting Don ad spending our morning with him. And how cool that he's from Orono, right?! 

Okay, now I must run. What was supposed to be a short blog post that I was writing on my phone has turned much longer. And since im typing on my phone has taken quite a while and I'm are is full of mistakes - please excuse them. I'm off to do some shopping now, a quick workout, a Skype call to Elizabeth back in Holland, and then work. Have a great day and a happy Chinese New Year! Best! 


Me


The view from chair.


The essentials. Note the book, it's fabulous. Pick it up and read it ASAP! 


Monday, February 16, 2015

Cambodia - Day 1 - Silk Farm

My first day in Cambodia, in my first hour in Cambodia, I went and visited a silk farm just outside Siem Reap. The place, Angkor Silk Farm, not only produces silk, but trains people from around Cambodia in making silk, empowering them to later return to their communities and start their own silk comapies in their respective villages. The place was amazing!

I had a personal tour guide, Roath, who took me around the farm for an hour and patienty answered my overwhelming number of questions about every detail of the silk farm. I took notes during my tour and will now share all of my new found knowledge with you! Here goes:

The Angkor Silk Farm was orignally started in 1992 by the government as a way of training it's citizens in a new trade and helping the Cambodian silk industry. It has historically received funding from the EU and UN as well, but no longer received financial support from any of these places. Since it's inception in 1992 it has trained over 400 people in the silk industry. The orgnaization used to train both men and women in the trade but now only accepts female apprentices for it's programs as they are more likely to succeed in the industry.

When you first start the tour you are brought to a field of mulberry trees, the main food for the silk worms. Although silk worms can eat many other things, mulberry trees provide the best food for creating the best quality silk. Although the trees can get very large in the wild, they are kept quite small on the farm as the leaves are picked off and fed to the worms and keeping the trees smaller makes it easier for collecting the leaves. In nature, the worms would live on the trees, but the threat form predators is quite high so they are kept in houses at the silk farm where they are safe from birds and other hungry animals.


Mulberry Tree.

Each worm produces 400 meters of silk in it's lifetime. After hatching from it's egg (up to 90% of the eggs hatch in captivity - much higher, I am sure, than in the wild), the silk worm feeds for 24 days in cycles of 3 days eating, one day resting. After 24 days of eating and resting, the worm them creates it's cocoon which is made of silk. If the worms were allowed to live past this stage - as some are for reproduction purposes - they would then turn into a moth. To keep the silk usable, however, the worm must be killed while it is still in it's cocoon. This is done by placing the silk worm cocoons out in the sun to dry/bake/die. In the wet season 20% of the worms are allowed to live into moth-hood, in the dry season 15% (as there isn't as much food to feed them), to reproduc and lay enough eggs to sustain the population.


Silk moths on the papers where they lay their eggs. The tiny little black worms are the newly hatched wilk worms.


Silk moths, their eggs, and then small silk worms in the background on mulberry tree leaves.


Hatching silk worm eggs.


Silk worms eating.


Unhatched silk worm eggs. Each moth lays around 200 eggs and 80-90% hatch when kept at the correct temperature using the aircon. 

The cocoon that the silk worm makes is made up of two types of silk - raw silk and fine silk. The raw silk is the silk on the outisde of the cocoon (the lighter colored silk) and this is about 100 meters of the total 400 meters of silk thread. The other 300 meters is made up of the fine silk, which is a rich yellow color. The color is different in different countries, depending on the worms and their diets, the soil, etc.... In some countries the raw silk is very valuable, in others it is the fine silk. In Cambodia, the fine silk is much more valuable than the raw silk.


Silk worm cocoons.


A close up. The brighter yellow is the fine silk, the lighter yellow is the raw silk. 


Silk worm cocoons that have hatched. The darker areas are the holes were the moth emerged from the cocoon. This silk is now unusable becuase the worm hatched out as a moth.


Silk worm cocoons drying in the sun to kill the worm and allow the silk to be used.

After the worms die, the cocoons are then processed to seperate the raw and fine silks from eachother, and to start the thread making processes. First the raw silk is removed from the outside of the fine silk and then the fine silk is unwound. This is done by floating the cocoons in hot water and slowly grabbing at the silk thread to ply it away from the ball it is wound into and then slowly and carefully unwinding the entire cocoon. One the raw and fine silk has been unwound, only the silk worm is left. In some countries, like Korea, the silk worms are eaten.


Seperating the raw silk from the ouside of the cocoon.


Look towards the top of the photo and you can see all the silk threads being wound together.


Cocoons of fine silk. If you look closely in the water you can see a few silk worms floating. 

The silk threads that are unwound from the cocoons are then combined with any number of other threads to create the desired thickness. They are cleaned and died (usuing natural dies) and then wound onto large spools for use in the weaving process.


Silk thread next to resin which creates a the nice color.


Curry used to create the orange color of the silk.


Resin covered silk at it's natural color. This silk was very coarse, like horse hair.


Lots of spools of thread being combined to create silker thread.


And a close-up of the process.


The ladies at work!


And the finished product - very, very long silk threads.

One the thread is ready to go, it is then prepared for the dying and weaving process. For silk pieces wtih complicated patterns, it can take up to 5 days to prepare and dye the silk to create the correct pattern. To make the pattern, the silk is tied off with small pieces of plastic and then dyed. What is covered with the plastic does not change color, what is not covered does. Then they continue to dye one color over the other, having to cover and recover each section they do not want to change color with each new dye process. If a mistake is made, the entire silk piece is then dyed black and used for a fully black piece. This prevents waste but also decreases the profitabiliy of the piece. Because of this, it is very important that the weavers are very carefully while they work. If a mistake is made at the end of the dying process, up to five days of hard work can be wasted.


Tying off the silk pattern for the first round of dying.


Now tying off the pattern for the second color.


The finished pattern.

Once the silk is dyed, it is then prepared for the weaving process. Once ready for the weaving process, it can take up to another 5 days to weave a complicated pattern. The weavers were absolutely amazing! The pace with which they worked, managing so many different spools of died thread with various patterns was incredible. I cannot imagine ever, even after a year of training, being able to keep all of that straight. Just amazing!


Unwinding the dyed silk threads so they can be prepared for the weaving process.


A weaver hard at work.


And another. You can see all the different threads she had right in front of her. They are all a different pattern and she has to keep them all straight. Amazing!


A weaver's work station. On the piece of paper in front of her is the pattern - very complicated!


And amazingly complicated weaved pattern. 


Then, once the weaving process is finished, they are ready to be sold. The most complicated of scarf patterns were being sold for USD $119. I'm not sure how pricey that is compared to a nice silk scarf back in the states, but being able to see people working on it, knowing that is all hand done, and knowing that you are contributing to the advancement of an industry is really neat. And, you can special order any color or pattern you would like. Great gift for yourself or someone else. If you ever go to Siem Reap, plan this one hour activity into your trip!

Sunday, February 15, 2015

My New Job

So I have now worked 6 days at my new job, almost a full working week, and it has been a week of highs and lows. Monday, my first day, was hard since I didn't know what to do. I hate being at work when I don't have anything/know what to do becuase you feel like you're not helping and just in the way. Tuesday I had a small section but it wasn't that busy and I still didn't really know what was going on. Wednesday and Thursday I started to feel like I had a good handle on my section, was able to help people, and I made lots of friends. Then came Friday.

Friday was terrible! I had way more customer than I could handle, I didn't know the system well enough to have this many people in my section, and for a good 2 or 3 hours I was completely overwhelmed! I was very unhappy with my performance, with the flow of things, but after we were finished I talked with my boss and apparently it was a great improvement on the week before so he was in no way unhappy with me. The bar has only been open 4 months and they have gotten much busier much faster than they could have imagined and thus are still training most of the staff. I still am not happy with my performance on Friday, but I am happy my boss was not extremely unhappy with my performance.

And then last night, Saturday, I had a great night. I had the back patio to myself while there was an event on the front patio. I had lots of great customer, no real problems to speak of, a personal drinks/food runner and busser which really helped, and I made a few big tips. Great night!

Overall I am happy with the new job. The crew is cool, I'm enjoying the job, it is outside, in the great weather, with a fabulous view of the city, I really can't complain. Welcome to Singapore!

Unrelated: Elizabeth went to Holland yesterday for good. I'm very sad, I am now here alone in Singaproe. Well, not totally alone, but it is so weird not having her with me anymore. I cam home from work yesterday and she wasn't here. It was really sad.

That's all for now. It is finally my day off, it is a beautiful day in Singapore, and I'm off to enjoy!

Monday, February 9, 2015

Quest

Back in December I read a book, The Happiness of Pursuit, and after reading that I decided to set out on a quest. I'm doing this both to give my travel some boundaries and also so I know when I'll be done traveling. It will also force me to continue to drive to make this trip (my life) better and more difficult all at the same time. 

The quest I have decided on is to live on every continent for at least one year and to return to the states in roughly 10 years. Today I was having a chat to Elizabeth about this, predicting what that will look like, and want to document my prediction so I can see how it actually pans out against my best guess as of today.

Here's where I think I will live on each continent, what I will have for a job, and they are listed in order:

Asia: Singapore - Restaurant
Middle East: Dubai - Emirates Air (I realize this isn't a continent but I can't just skip over this part of the world. I also do not plan to live on Antarctica so I'm substituting)
Europe: Paris - unknown job
Africa: Tanzania - work and live on a game reserve
South America: live/work in southern Argentina wine country
North America: Cuba
Then one+ year in NYC to top it off

There will also be lots of travel to other countries while I live in these places. I may also go back to Australia for a year before I'm 30 because you can make great money there. 

That's my prediction, now let's see how it works out!!! 


Saturday, February 7, 2015

I've Got a Job!

In the 48 hours that I've been back from Cambodia I have managed to lock in a job. Crazy!!!! I start Monday afternoon, before which I will be reviewing my contrat and at which point I can let you know more of the details. But, it looks great. I just got this news and now I'm off to prison fit. Nothing more to say at this exact moment but I'll fill you in more soon.

Best!

Friday, February 6, 2015

No Opportunites for Cambodian Kids

I am now back in Singapore and have finally gone through all my photos. But, before I get to that, I am going to write my first big Cambodia post about my reflections on the lives of the people in Cambodia. (Note: All prices I mention in this post will be in US dollars as this is one of the two currencies used in Cambodia.)

So for a bit of background, the average person in Cambodia makes US$1 per day. That's $365 a year. On an income of that size obvioulsy most things are out of reach. Public education is free to all children, but most towns only have a primary school and secondary school are only located in the larger cities. For most children to attend secondary school they have to move away from home and rent a room or live with a relative for many years. To pay for their child to board in another town and attend secondary school will cost a family on average $50. For a family that is making maybe $60 per month (considering both parents are working) this is not something they can afford - espically if they have more than one child, or have any other expensises besides this, which they obviously would have. So this being said, if a child does not grow up in a larger city in Cambodia, this likely will only attend school through primary school, and only if the parents choose to send their kids. It is not mandatory and the government does not punish parents who do not send their children to school, although they do campaigns in rural areas to encourage parents to educate their children as long as possible.

My driver, who likely makes good money compared to the average Cambodia, currenlty has his 3 year old daughter enrolled in a private pre-school as pre-school is not offered in Cambodia free of charge (much like America). When his daugher turns 6 she will begin to attend the local public schools, which, according to my driver, are not very good. They recieve minimal English language instruction, 2 hours per week, and it is taught by local Cambodians who do not have a very desirable accent so the kids do not learn the proper pronunciation of the English language. I asked my driver if he was planning to send his daughter on to private school later as well but he said it is too expensive. He mentioned there is a good international school in town, but at $500 per year he cannot afford it. Can you imagine being able to give your child a good education for $500 per year? That is like one semester of books during college in America, not an entire year of good education.

Taking all this into consideration, the thing I found the hardest about being in Cambodia was the idea that there is no real way for a child to have a better life. If they are lucky they will go to school through high school, or if really lucky college, but then what? There is almost no industry in Cambodia outside of rice farming and tourism Their English language education will have been very poor and their speaking skills will not be anything exceptional. No other countries in the world speak Cambodian so they can't take their native language anywhere. And I can't imagine that the standard education they would receive in school is all that spectacular either. Looking at their situation, at the hand these kids have been dealt in life, it is hard to imagine that they will ever have an opporutnity for a much better life. It is hard to imagine many of them will ever leave Cambodia, and most of them won't. Most people in Cambodia will never leave. Many of them can't even afford to travel across their state as many people can't afford a motorbike or car - many people simply ride pedal bikes.

One additional thing working against these children is that many of their parents are not literate. During the reign of the Khmer Rouge from 1975-1979 all education was stopped in Cambodia. Any children who should have been in school during these years did not recieve an educaiton, missing out on critical years of learning. Because these people have not seen the positive benefits of a good educaiton many of them cannot see the value and thus do not prioritize it for their own children.

This brings me to my conclusion that the only chance many of these kids have would be to learn English as best they can so they have the skills needed to move out of the country. The better their english, as well as the rest of their educaiton, the greater their opportunities will be in life. I have thought before about how lucky I am to speak english, especially with a mid-west American accent (the most desirable accent), and how I could possibly use this gift I have been given to give back. I have thought that once I am settled somewhere I could teach english for free on the side, helping people improve their skills and improve their accents. Although I don't know anything about teaching, having lived in Spain and having had exchagne students, I am great at correcting people, working on their pronunciation, and explaining what words mean, when to use them, when not to use them, and how to similar words are different. I often corrected my co-workers at Ortolana and they appreciated my help. They knew they could ask me about the intricacies of English words and I would help explain why a word is used the the way it is. I enjoy helping others, I am not shy to correct someone's english (when it is appropriate, of course), I understand how helpful it is to have someone correcting you when you are trying ot learn a new language, and feel that this is probably the best skill I have to offer to people less fortunate than myself at this time in my life.

So, if I don't get a job here in Singapore in the next 2 weeks I will leave. And my next step will be trying to find a place to volunteer (and hopefully make a bit of money to offset my living costs) in Cambodia and teach English - as this is the bes thing I can offer these kids so they have the opportunity to have a better life.

Doing this would be a net negative activity. I will have to pay for some, if not all, of my own expenses - rent, food, everything else. I may be able to make a bit of money teaching to those more well off in my free time but they already have the money to learn English so they are in a much better position already than the majority of the population. I have contacted one school outside Siem Reap about possibly doing a long term volunteer project with them and am waiting ot hear back. This is a huge change from my original plan, but it would do much more for the world than waiting tables of event planning here in Singapore.

I am still going to leave both options open for now, as I am waiting to hear back from both the school and the jobs, but I expanding my horizons as Singapore isn't happening as fast as I would have hoped.

Monday, February 2, 2015

Cambodia is Amazing!

My flight landed only 3 hours ago and I am already in love. For this trip I hired a driver/tour guide (a recommendation from an old work colleague) and he was waiting for me at the airport. I was one fo the first through customs since I was at the front of the plane and within an hour I had landed, gone through customs, checked-in at my hotel, and was off to my first activity - a silk farm/workshop. The place was amazing. I had an hour long, private tour (for the cost of a USD$2.50 tip) and took tons of notes and photos of which I will make amore thorough blog post this evening. Then back to the hotel, took a quick swim, and am now about to head into town for a late lunch/early dinner. I really can't believe how awesome this trip has been so far. And to have a driver/tour guide to whom I can ask all the questions I always have about a place is totally invaluable. I think this will be my new method of travel. I asked all about the local industry, education system, health care, housing, etc... I love learning all that and you can't always find someone to ask. I have someone I can ask every question I want for the next 3 days. I am loving this trip so far, only 3 hours in. I am so happy to be here and I imagine I will be coming back again soon. And if not soon, definitely when my parents come.

Off to eat now - longer post to come this evening.

Best!

I can't recognize an American accent.

Saturday night we went to an outdoor movie playing at the National Museum of Singapore. The movie was super weird - some 1970's french film about the Bourgeoisie. We were sitting on the sidewalk next to another group of people that included this one white guy. I was convinced English was his second language. Everyone else I was with (Elizabeth from Australia, Richard from NZ, and Johnny from England) were all convinced he was from America. Richard kept telling me that all Americans talk that slow. I seriously could not believe English was his first language and in an order to prove everyone else wrong I asked him and it turns out he was from Atlanta. I seriously have never heard anyone talk in such a slow and labored way before. It was like he was trying to consciously think of making every sounds he needed to make to form the words he wanted to say. I spent a month outside Atlanta before I left the states and I don't remember people talking like that. I guess I just don't know all my American accents as well as I should.

In other news, I am sitting in the Singapore airport right now waiting to board my flight to KL and then onto Siem Reap, Cambodia. I will be there until Thursday afternoon at which time I will be flying back to Singapore and hopefully back to a job.

On the job front there is news as well. Since I am spending all this time waiting on place #3, I decided to at least send out a few more resumes to see if I can get a job somewhere else. An italian place got back to me and I went in yesterday to meet with the GM. Shortest interview ever - and strangest. We talked for maybe 5 minutes, at least half of which was spent on my trip to Cambodia and my housing situation in Singapore. He said they can likely find a job for me in even coordination across their 4 restaurants. This is the second place that has wanted me to work events - it must be a sign. So I'm meeting with the owner after I get back to Singapore and then hopefully I'll get a job offer there. I would still like to work at place #3 but I can't wait around forever. I just want something to work out so I can get a place to live, join a kickboxing gym, start coming up with a routine, learning whatever neighborhood I will eventually live in, etc...

Okay, time to go through security now. They do security at each individual gate, not to enter the airport. Time to go now. Best!