Ever since we arrived in Penang we have been staying up late
and getting up late, very different than our routine previously where we were
usually out of the hotel room by 9:00 or 9:30. In Penang we are lucky to get
into town before 12:00. Saturday was no different. Up late and into town late
we had a quick breakfast and then each went off for a separate afternoon of
exploring. I had a few errands to run – I went to see a local artisan about
getting a traditional Chinese seal made and another to see about business cards
– and Elizabeth wanted to find a nice place to read in the sun. We split up
just before 12 with a plan to meet back up at 2.
My errands were accomplished quickly. I picked out the stone
piece for my Chinese seal and decided I would give myself an evening to think
about what to put on it. Typically you have your name engraved in Chinese
characters but I just didn’t like this idea. Since my name is in English and
names don’t really translate I didn’t like the idea of putting my name in Chinese
characters on the stone. Instead I decided I would put something more
meaningful – and a proper Chinese character – I just had to decided what. The
cost: RM$180 (approximately US$50). It could have been cheaper but I really
liked a more expensive stone and I figured I’m probably only going to get one
in my life so I might as well get one I like, right? And in reality it’s only
US$50 – not all that expensive. For the double sided business cards I want it
will be RM$60 for 200 cards (US$17). I am going to stamp my business cards with
my seal so I didn’t commit to the business cards either as I needed to measure
the stone, etc… The business cards will be ordered on Monday.
Since these tasks didn’t take long and I had lots of time
left before meeting with Elizabeth I thought this would be a good time to walk
around and try to improve my poor photography skills. I wanted to make some
sort of goal for 2015 around photography but haven’t committed to anything yet
and don’t think I will. Instead I will just practice taking more photos – more
artistic photos, not just photos of me doing things – and see how it goes. If I
think my skills start to develop maybe I’ll buy myself a fancy camera for
Christmas next year. (On this, I think
my blog will be changing a bit this year. Not on purpose, per say, but because
I just feel like I’m developing and changing so my blog should as well. I will
likely be including less photos and videos – not that I won’t be making them,
but it is very time consuming to upload them all – and doing longer written
posts. This is basically what I’ve been doing the last few weeks anyways and I
like it. I am really starting to enjoy the writing part of this, I feel like
I’m starting to see some real improvements from my abilities when I started,
and want to keep going with that. Also, when I do post photos they will likely
be more “artistic” and less just photos of me standing next to things. A way to
try to develop a new skill.)
While I was walking around Georgetown and Little India
taking pictures I stumbled upon a bookstore so I decided to go in. Since
leaving Asia I have purchased 5 books total. Without a job now I have so much
more time to read. This particular bookstore was full of books about Malaysia
and South East Asia. Although I had three unread books back in the hotel I
decided to buy another. There’s no better time than now to read about Malaysia.
Plus one goal I have for 2015 is to read at least one book from an author from
each continent. Great time to buy a book that will feed into this goal! I
looked through the Malaysia section, spoke with the shopkeeper, and finally
decided on a book, Politics of the
Temporary, written by a doctoral student in Chicago. The author, Parthiban
Mundiandy, was born and raised in Kuala Lumpur by immigrant parents from India.
The book recounts his experiences interviewing temporary migrant workers in
both Kuala Lumpur and Georgetown, Penang (where we are currently staying) for
his doctoral thesis. I will get more into the book in later posts, but in the
first 24 hours of owning the book I read over 60 pages. The stories are
fascinating and it is so nice to read a book about places I have been – Bukit
Bintang in KL, Chinatown in KL, Jalan Pudu in KL. It gives so much more meaning
to the stories.
This brings me to another topic very briefly, the stronger
connection I now feel with world issues. I first noticed this a few weeks ago
with the hostage situation in Sydney. Elizabeth and I were watching the news
and heard about the hostage crisis at Martin Place in Sydney. Normally when something like this popped up
on the news – about a crisis in another country – I would have thought “that’s
really too bad” or maybe “how scary,” but when this happened I had those same
thoughts but on a stronger level because I walked by that very shop when I was
in Sydney last year. That incident which I honestly would have cared very
little about two years ago interested me much more since I could have been in
that shop when it happened. I never actually went into the Lindt shop when I
was there but who’s to say I wouldn’t have. I like how traveling makes things
that happen in other parts of the world so much more relevant to my life now.
The hostage crisis in Sydney, temporary migrant workers in Malaysia, these are
all things that I now care about more than I ever would have before.
Okay, back to the story of the day’s events. After
purchasing my new book it was time to meet back up with Elizabeth. I arrived at
the café a bit early and decided to get myself an apple juice. Another goal
that I have for 2015 is to have 5 fruits and vegetables every day. (I know it’s
not 2015 yet but I ma piloting all my goals now to make sure they are actually
reasonable. I’m not only picking easy goals, but I also don’t want to set
myself up for failure which is why the photography goals have been scrapped –
it just wouldn’t happen.) When Elizabeth arrived she also ordered a juice and
we sat there reading or chatting or something.
While we were sitting there I noticed a man sitting alone at
the counter and invited him over to join us. He accepted and thus began our
afternoon chatting with Roland. I have no hesitation saying that Roland is the
most interesting person we have met since we left New Zealand – maybe the most
interesting person I have met since I left America.
For a bit about Roland, he is 36 years old, from France, and
has been living in Asia for over ten years now. When he first came to Asia he
lived in Japan, but has since moved from there to Phuket, Thailand and then down
here to Penang. When Roland was in his early 20s he was heavily involved with
MMA fighting. He lived for 4 years in NYC and then moved to Japan at the age of
25. During his time in the states he even did a fight in Fridley, MN – pretty
cool, isn’t it? At some point during his 20s Roland was diagnosed with Multiple
Sclerosis (MS). He eventually had to stop fighting and went back to France for
treatment.
Despite the efforts of the doctors and the best conventional
medicines available his condition continued to worsen. After years of decline,
both physically from the MS and mentally from the strong medications, two years
ago Roland was confined to his wheelchair 90% of the time.
During the time that his condition was worsening, Roland
kept hearing about a plant called Ayahuasca. He heard about in things he was
reading, on the TV, from people he came in contact with. Eventually he decided
to do some more research for himself.
Ayahuasca is a plant from the Amazon rainforest with healing
properties. Although the history is not known since there are no written
records from the Amazon before the Spanish Conquest, it is believed Ayahuasca
has been in use by Amazonian tribes for over 2,500 years. There are many places in the Amazon where you
can go on retreats and use the drug for it’s healing properties – both physical
and mental.
Roland, at this point interested in alternative medicines
for help with his MS, decided after much research to go to an Ayahuasca retreat
center in the jungle in Peru for 6 weeks. During this time he did a 10-day fast,
7 Ayahuasca ceremonies, and daily purges. He recounted learning much about
himself – both the good and the bad – and well as about those around him. The
retreat was not easy, and he would not recommend it for other people – unless
they feel a calling to do it, but he could not be happier that he went.
Since leaving Peru Roland’s MS has not only stopped
progressing, but many of the effects have actually been reversed. He no longer
uses a wheelchair and says his condition is continuing to get better. His
outlook on life has also completely changed. He avoids stress in his life and
just tries “to go with the flow” as best he can. Roland has emphasized that the largest positive effects he has seen from the Ayahuasca retreat is the healing of the mind. No matter how much his
condition improves he will never go back to the stress and negative mental
energy of MMA fighting.
Now to the Magic part of the day, after Roland we no longer
about to do MMA he switched to Magic. He meets regularly with a teacher here in
Penang and practices his tricks at Mugshot with random customers. Since we fell
into this “random customer” category we got to see a few card tricks. Not only
does he do magic tricks but he also reads body language – he did a lying
exercise with us. I didn’t pass at all but Elizabeth did. He wasn’t far off
though on her. It was very impressive. I told him to look up Lie To Me online
and watch it.
Anyways, Elizabeth and I were both absolutely fascinated by
his story. I have never heard anything like it before. MMA fighter to magician.
Sick with MS in a wheelchair to walking assisted with only one crutch. It was
truly fascinating to hear the journey his life has taken. It was a
self-admitted “roller coaster” as everyone’s life is, but he’s got to have one
of the most interesting roller coasters out there.
After this amazing encounter there really isn’t anything
that could top that for the day. After parting ways with Roland we headed back
home on the bus. Elizabeth had her first minor bout with food poisoning in the
afternoon and so I went to dinner by myself. I had Japanese Fish Katsu at the
hawker center just down the road and it was one of the best meals I’ve had
since leaving NZ. When I got back Elizabeth was feeling much better. I
continued reading my new book before bed. And Elizabeth made one comment that
more of less sums up our experience so far. I was telling her that I was
chatting with a mutual friend of ours, Ana (who I went to Samoa with), on
Facebook about her University classes. Elizabeth’s response was “Is Ana still
studying in NZ?” I reminded Elizabeth that we only left NZ two and half weeks
ago so, yes, Ana was still studying in NZ. But her comment couldn’t have better
reflected that fact that it feels as if we have been gone forever. I can
honestly say I feel like I never even lived there. Time has been going so slow
– with all the new experiences we are having every day – that it almost feels
like I’ve been here in Penang forever. I can barely even remember Singapore –
except how much I loved it and that I want to go back. It is just amazing that
we have only been gone 16 days and yet feel like we never even lived back in
NZ.
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